What a concept. One that sometimes doesn’t make sense and fails to accomplish our wildest dreams and wishes. My dearest friend is getting divorced. I do believe that as human beings we die in order to live.One makes the decision to either fight for it or fight and let go.
I was and have experienced a long term relationship before and was never quite ready to talk about it till now. I was with someone for 7 years and may I add that spending your life with someone side by side for that time period is something to be talked about. The beauty that comes out of ruins is more beautiful then you could have imagined.
The unofficial rule book for love keeps growing and keeps being rewritten unlike the Bible. I do question how I support someone in this situation as I know it is an experience as close to death here on earth.
Packed like sardines in a can we all are the same when it comes down to love. Love is the one thing that unites us.
My advice if you can relate, breath in and let go. Through letting go and losing your old self you find your new and more wiser true self. The break up part though, may take days, months, or even years to get over. But I can assure you that once you get through it , you always come out stronger and that is a promise and a decision you need to make. Taking it step by step connecting those dots will make you wiser.
Much Love Tailor